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Meet Didi!
Meet Didi!

Two weeks ago we became proud owners of a golden puppy through Labrador Rescue in Cape Town.

Didi, as we’ve named her, lived in the suburbs and her owner was engagingly honest: she digs up the garden, she isn’t house-trained because she’s never lived indoors and she was expelled from puppy class because she was such a disruptive presence. Hmm.

Husband very attached to his garden so after much discussion we decided to live with some holes but we rolled up our beautiful Chinese silk carpets and headed off to collect Didi – or Delightful Didi as we now call her. At seven months she’s still very much a puppy and quite a handful but has fitted into our home so easily.

Not once has she messed in the house, she loves being out on walks and hassles our aged golden lab only a few times a day. Not one hole in the garden. So many people get a puppy when they have children – and usually a Labrador because everyone says labs are perfect with children.

Yes they are but they still need huge amounts of attention, love, training and time. Puppies nip, they jump, they shove – they are puppies after all! We’ve never had kids and I can assure you if I had I would not have a puppy if the kids were young. Just too much work.

Even with two adults in the house we’ve hired a dog walker for those days where we can’t exercise her enough – and hired a dog trainer to make sure we’re on the right track – and she’s with us all the time when we’re home. Locking her out just makes things so much worse. But if you have the time and the energy they’re worth every second of love, loyalty and affection.

Although I had doubts when I was stretched out on the couch watching TV and a very wet, gobby ball was shoved against my cheek the other night. Our days of peace are over for now.

From the 7th floor:
Things were tense on our floor this week. We’d lined up Advocate Barbie’s mom to speak exclusively straight after sentencing. But things took a lot longer at the court than anticipated. And of course they broke for lunch. Then Barbie was hauled off to jail and her mother collapsed, unable to speak to our journalist.

The first four pages in our mag were empty and waiting, we were waiting, the clock was ticking. We had no other option for a strong lead story. They weren’t answering their cellphones. Our journalist and photographer were pacing.

At the 11th hour we got our time with Cezanne Visser’s mother. Exhausted, drained and emotional she told us her story. We held the presses, we sent the cover to print seven hours later than usual and the staff signed off the final pages well after midnight.

But we did it – we got the story that everyone wants to read. Nadia, our news editor, aged visibly during the course of the day. She was close to tears, then overjoyed, as she announced the time and place we could finally do the interview. Our plan B could be shelved.



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Comments (9)


  1. family friend
    2010/03/22 12:57:35 PM
    What a stunning combination. Cezanne and a labby. I know that Cezanne has a
    Beautiful Labbie by the name of CAESAR. she loves the dog to bits.
    Caesar is always with her. He is 2 years old and I know that she got the dog as gift
    from her mom. After Dirk Prrinsloo shot and killed her Jack Russel on the farm in
    Bela Bela she never wanted apet again. her mom the gave the labby. This pet gave
    a lot of comfort in very sad and painfull times in her life. She grew so fond of Caesar
    and with labbies it is clear that they just know when their buddies need special
    care
  2. Saffer
    2010/03/09 06:12:53 PM
    We have an 8 month old Chocolate Lab, Scooby-Doo, we learned she was destructive out of boredom, just like a child pretty much.

    But morning and evening long walks put stop to her naughty tendencies.

    Good for you, for rescueing a pup! There's so many puppy mills around, that dogs who need rescuing hardly have a chance.

  3. Shell
    2010/03/05 04:03:48 PM
    Aww, Delightful Didi is just gorgeous! We had a Didi growing up. We eventually called her Daft Didi because she was just untrainable or is it incorrigible?
  4. Free-at-last
    2010/03/05 03:42:08 PM
    Never judge Barbie until you've walked a mile in her shoes. After being labeled a spitfire in my youth, I met this man. Ten years and a child later I had no self esteem, no self worth, no family, no friends and no hope. You won't understand until you go through it. They do things to you that you're not used to (like swearing at you) and because you're not used to it, you don't know how to react and then you start hearing how stupid you are etc. Then comes the biggest blow, they leave you. Now you're so stupid you can't even keep them? You beg and go back. I know exactly what she's going through and like her, my "hero" is now in another country. Thanks to God's grace and mercy I'm set free.
  5. Charlie
    2010/03/04 04:45:51 PM
    Ah. That makes sense. Maybe it was just my mom who had enough of her kids clambering all over everything, causing chaos, etc. Hey, maybe we were like frustrated dogs who weren't exercised enough. Ha, ha.
  6. linda pietersen
    2010/03/03 06:38:15 PM
    Dogs chew if they are frustrated! if you exercise them and give them enough love and attention they don't damage stuff. And being inside wouldn't be the issue - if they are frustrated or bored they will dig holes outside, chew new plants and cause general mayhem. Seldom a bad dog - usually the fault lies with the owners.
  7. Alf
    2010/02/26 05:34:10 PM
    You may not have had kids but you do an excellent impersonation of proud new parents with your devotion to Delightful Didi. May she bring you much joy!

    Talking about proud parents, I can't imagine what it must have been like for Adv Barbie's mom to see her pride and joy turn into a sex criminal under the influence of that dreadful boyfriend of hers. As a mom I feel for Susan. But as a mom I also know that if my daughter had been one of Cezanne's victims I would be baying for revenge.
  8. Charlie
    2010/02/26 05:04:52 PM
    I heard dogs chew everything they see if they stay inside. We weren't allowed to have our dogs inside when I was little so not sure if that's true.

    Also, you simply MUST read The Story of Edgar Sawtelle. Must, must, must.
  9. wm
    2010/02/26 11:51:57 AM
    I'm sure Didi will bring loads of joy (and destruction) to you life! It's so rewarding to have a dog! And well done, for rescuing a dog.

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