Fiona’s dark last hours

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On TV she was the woman with the sharp tongue and steely gaze who’d peer over those dark-rimmed glasses and, without a trace of sympathy for the hapless contestant, snarl, “You are the Weakest Link . . . goodbye.”

But as it turns out Fiona Coyne (45) didn’t have all the answers either. And the award-winning playwright, actress and TV presenter’s farewell to the world has been as painfully precise as her personality was.

She was found dead in bed at home in Fish Hoek, Cape Town, on 18 August. She’d committed suicide the previous night.

A Cape Town advocate might be able to shed light on why this vivacious woman felt life was no longer worth living. All distraught Richard Goodman could say was, “I love her. I love her so much” before becoming too overcome to say any more.

Fiona was an extremely private person whose life had changed dramatically in the past few months, one of her closest friends and confidantes says.

She had thrown heart and soul into a community project in Zimbabwe. Then she met Richard.

In a quiet spot after the service Lesley-Anne Mulder (41) talks about Fiona, her friend of 14 years.

“I’ll never forget how excited she was when she fell in love out of the blue,” Lesley-Anne says. “That caught her by surprise and she was different – ecstatic, wildly happy.”

But there was a problem. Fiona told her friend Richard was opposed to her involvement in the Zimbabwean upliftment project.

“Then he went quiet and when she didn’t hear from him it was like the rug had been pulled out from under her. As fast as it had arrived love vanished.”

One of the most painful things in Fiona’s life was that she couldn’t have children, says Lesley-Anne, whose son Liam (8) was Fiona’s godchild.

“But with Malala in her life, then Richard on top of it, she radiated love and happiness over the last few months like I’d never seen her do in all those years.”

In March they visited Zimbabwe where Lesley-Anne introduced Fiona to her friends at Malala on the Zambezi River. Fiona made an immediate connection with founders Robert Fowler and Dennis Bean. Dennis explained to her how they were helping the community to grow fruit and vegetables and make money from it so they could become self-sustaining.

“She positioned herself in the project immediately, saying she’d be the spokesperson, finding people worldwide to participate to uplift Zimbabweans.”

- Visit www.bengula-project.org to view a video of Fiona at the Zimbabwe project she was so passionate about. S



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Comments (37)


  1. Milly Nell
    2011/08/18 11:11:45 PM
    one year later...rest in peace... may your soul experience eternal life...
  2. SANDY REDDY
    2011/06/22 11:11:09 AM
    Happy Birthday. My dearest Fiona. Miss u stax.
  3. Sandy Reddy
    2011/02/14 08:23:04 PM
    The most wonderful people I have met in my life.Rest in Peace my dearest Fiona and Bruce.
    You are together now. I miss you so dearly. I cherish all those wonderful memories of us together.
  4. Ben L Gula
    2010/12/06 12:29:06 PM
    We at the Project honor Fiona. She understood exactly what the project was about. How we miss her. No Mixael, not sensationalist marketing. The Truth.
  5. Mixael de Kock
    2010/10/08 07:19:26 PM
    "One should rather die than be betrayed. There is no deceit in death. It delivers precisely what it has promised. Betrayal, though ... betrayal is the willful slaughter of hope."

    ~ Steven Deitz
  6. Mixael de Kock
    2010/09/09 04:14:25 PM
    So we make our choices
    When there is no choice
    We listen to their voices
    And we ignore our own voice
    And when the people gathered around you
    were always the most cruel .......

    Stephanie Lynn Nicks, from Sisters of the Moon, 1978

  7. Mixael de Kock
    2010/09/09 02:53:56 PM
    1. In an age where transparency and open communication is regarded as a pre-requisite to airing an opinion It is a pity that the media still afford readers the bullet-proof safety of the “nom-de-plume”--- especially when such people demand for themselves the liberty of making statements about another but does not have the gumption publicly to identify themselves. Having read the copy posted by “Suspect Mixael” and “Mixael Mourn Quietly” (about and hour apart on the same day) it is patently obvious that these two commentators have much in common. If Fiona then was so enamored about a prospective project and so deliriously happy that she desired to translocate for this purpose, then why, oh why, didn’t she fly over that rainbow? Surely then she would have had something to live for – a new project and a new show that simply had to go on? It really wasn’t like Fiona to quit after three weeks in pre-production. And, after all I should know, she lived with me for 4 continuous months at the end of last year while appearing in the pantomime at the Joburg Theatre. Not once did she miss a show for the entire run of “Pinocchio”. It is therefore ironic that I should now again notice noses growing.
  8. Pinky
    2010/09/09 01:11:33 PM
    Rest in peace Fiona,i never got the chance to wash your show,i just read about u in the magazine and it felt like i knew you for a long time.i know how you felt coz i also was abononde by a person that i love so dearly.sadly for u ,u never got to live and realise how precious life really is.R.I.P .MY CONDOLENCES TO YOUR MOTHER AND THE REST OF THE FAMILY
  9. Kristof van Staden
    2010/09/09 12:46:10 PM
    Well said MIxael. The standard of journalism in magazines like YOU and Huisgenoot leaves a lot to be desired, and in my opinion reflects the mindless interests of their uneducated, sensationalist seeking readers. Regardless of the "Gospel according to YOU", you have made the right desicion to honour her and to be a "miser of your memories of her."

  10. NO WILL
    2010/09/08 02:41:22 PM
    ONLY U KNEW UR PAIN. IM GOING THREW MY PAIN ALONE SO IM AWARE OF THE PAIN U HAD 2 ENDURE. R.I.P. DEAR FIONA.
  11. NO WILL
    2010/09/08 02:38:21 PM
    ONLY U KNEW UR PAIN. IM GOING THREW MY PAIN ALONE SO IM AWARE OF THE PAIN U HAD 2 ENDURE. R.I.P. DEAR FIONA.
  12. GAIL AMBER ALLEN
    2010/08/31 12:06:10 PM
    WHAT A SAD LOSS TO ALL HER FAMILY FRIENDS AND VIEWERS ALIKE. REST IN PEACE FIONA. WE
    SHALL FOREVER REMEMBER THE IMPRESSIONS YOU MADE WITH YOU SNARL COMMENTS ( I LOVED THEM AS THEY WERE FITTING FOR THE SHOW BEING RESPRENTED). YOU MUST HAVE BEEN SO ALONE, ONE CAN ONLY WISH THAT YOU WOULD HAVE CRIED OUT FOR HELP AND THEN WE WOULD STILL HAVE YOU. MAY YOUR DEAR SOUL REST IN PEACE AND MAY YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS BE BLESSED WITH LOVE PEACE COMFORT AND UNDERSTANDING.
    THANK YOU FOR A WONDERFUL SHOW - SADLY YOU CHOSE LIFE'S CHALLENGES TO BE YOUR WEAKEST LINK. R I P
    FROM AN AVID WEAKEST LINK VIEWER
    GAIL AMBER ALLEN - WALMER PORT ELIZABETH
  13. Suspect Mixael
    2010/08/30 10:16:07 PM
    Mixael De Kock (third diatribe from the top) is unnecessarily bitter. It is obvious that Mixael did not know Fiona as she was in the months leading up to her tragic passing. Firstly, if one watches the Ben Gula dvd of Fiona then it is obvious that she was passionate and excited about the project. Fiona also gave her unconditional support to Ben gula's aim to re-empower Zimbabwe's poorest tribe, hence her UNCONDITIONAL support means that NO MATTER what she sees Ben Gula as a worthwile cause. Instead, Mixael is manipulatively letting his bitterness eclipse the things that made Fiona happy, Hence, considering Mixael did not know what made Fiona happy, how can he claim to care about her? Suspect
  14. Mixael Mourn Quitely
    2010/08/30 09:04:41 PM
    If one watches the video of Fiona talking about The Ben Gula Project it is obvious that it is something she was very passionate about. Also, people like Mixael shared no time with Fiona in the time before her death so have no idea about Fiona's true feelings. Further, if Fiona did not want the best for Ben Gula Project then why did she desire to move to Malala? It sounds therefor that Mixael is simply bitter and feels a sense of guilt for not being a true friend to Fiona. What is important is what Fiona wanted and it is clear from the dvd that she wanted every success for the Ben-Gula Project.
  15. tseko
    2010/08/30 12:51:14 PM
    GREAT LOSS TO THE FAMILY,ART WORLD AND MOST IMPORTANT THE MALALA COMMUNITY.TO RICHARD,MAN,FILL HER SHOES BY GETTING INVOLVED,SURELY,YOU AREN'T TO BE BLAMED!!
  16. H.M
    2010/08/30 12:50:14 PM
    There will never be another like her. Fiona, you, to the rest of us that did not know you personally, had it all, you were a pleasure to behold and listen to, your intelligence surpassed many on this earth.
    May your sould reast in peace and may your family heal in time.
  17. Mandy
    2010/08/30 11:43:16 AM
    Went to school with Fiona, she was a very passionate and lively person even at that age. My condolences to her family and her friends. No one will ever know the truth of why she did this, but may she rest in peace. She is away from the pain and that is understandable.
  18. Heather
    2010/08/29 03:26:27 PM
    He MUST have know how important it was to her, but I suppose his ego was waiting to see if she would chose him over the bengula project, and must have felt pretty confident that she would. Well what a shock for him now, and what a loss to the project having lost such a strong fiesty intelligent woman on their side.
  19. Des Engelbrecht
    2010/08/29 12:21:07 PM
    We may not question, we may not assume, we are not here to judge or blame.,what we can do is offer love and support to those who are hurting and mourning a beautiful soul that was on loan to us in this lifetime. My heart ,prayers and thoughts go out to Fiona's loved ones. I too lost a very special person for whom this lifetime became too much to bear - who wanted to go to a better place where he could feel whole again ,to a place filled with love and peace.and no more suffering......A brother so precious- who will never be forgotten but live on forever in our hearts...Love and miss you Gary...R.I.P . dear souls....R.I.P.- Know that the Lord is with you in your darkest hours...
  20. Mixael de Kock
    2010/08/29 10:53:26 AM
    This article, informed by Lesley-Anne Mulder, is the biggest load of melodramatic attention-seeking marketing effort I have ever read in my entire life. The facts in this article are totally warped and, to say the very least, inaccurate in teh extreme. True friends will NOT speak to the media about Fiona in the first instance - and especially not to YOU Magazine. But, what I can say is that she was a person with total integrity who in death is not being afforded the dignity of confidentiality and respect that she so amply deserves. Also, her role in The Weakest Link was exactly that: A Role. And she was a great actress in every respect. Talking to the media can only be construed as a malicious attempt to sensationalize and tarnish Fiona’s reputation and memory. The Bengula Project should remove the video from their webpage - Fiona is no longer with us, wasn't contractually bound to the project in any way and, therefore, should not be used as a marketing tool in death. Displaying this material is opportunistic, dishonest and in utter bad taste.
  21. julia j
    2010/08/29 09:58:20 AM
    FIONA YOU WERE AN INSPIRATION TO US ALL...I LOVED YOUR SHOW......BUT THERE ARE TIMES
    WHEN WE FEEL SO ALONE.....AND THE ONE WHO COMMITS SUICIDE IS THE ONE YOU LEAST
    EXPECT IT FROM.....RIP
  22. Maria Vaz
    2010/08/28 04:08:03 PM
    She looked so tough on weakest link, she was one of the women I admired and never thought could be desparate for a mans love. I wish she was as emotionally tough as she seemed on weakest link. R.I.P Fiona
  23. Eon
    2010/08/28 04:07:27 PM
    WATCH A VIDEO TRIBUTE TO FIONA COYNE

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DqvviS8O9Og
  24. Debi
    2010/08/28 12:10:26 PM
    How sad, what a loss. She was an amazing woman with wonderful talent. No one should judge her, none of us have walked in her shoes. No one can be blamed either for her decision. Sometimes emotional and physical pain is just too much and taking one's life seems the only option. I feel extremely sad for Fiona's mother - one never thinks you will outlive your child, may her memories of her beloved daughter keep her alive in her mind. Rest in Peace Fiona, you will be missed.
  25. Delia Mia
    2010/08/28 08:47:37 AM
    This is just so terribly sad. South Africa has lost an amazing women, but I feel that it is both unfair and irresponsible to apportion blame to any one person. I cannot believe that she took such a drastic step over what seems to have simply been a disagreement with the man she fell in love with. I can only think there must have been far deeper issues than that. Whatever her reasons, Fiona made a choice....and we are all solely responsible for the choices we make.
    Rest in Peace, lovely lady. You were loved more than you knew.
  26. Mark Naidoo
    2010/08/28 04:23:46 AM
    I or anybody else cannot judge you. Your hurt, your sorrow, your pain. Your entertained millions, yet was lonely. Rest in peace, away from all the difficulties in life. May comfort abide with your family and friends. Till we all meet . . . . .
  27. Jill Erasmus
    2010/08/27 11:11:59 PM
    Rejection is one of the most painful things for a human being to have to deal with! It erodes the self esteem, the self confidence...............and it often eradicates the basic purpose of living! The sad thing is that it is too often dealt to a partner in the cruelest of fashions, which, in my opinion, is "cutting off ties" without giving explanations or reasons. It creates the feeling of "I am a nothing! Why am I even living?". Eina, Ouch!! Fiona, I understand how you came to your decision, but, to others who have this feeling, please speak to someone, because, you know what?...........there is life after rejection..........you just need a bit of help to get over it! Rest in peace Fiona.
  28. Jacqui
    2010/08/27 08:19:23 PM
    I'm still in shock over the loss of Fiona Coyne, BUT it is not fair to blame Richard for her making the decision to do what she did. For someone as strong as what she was it would take alot more than not hearing from someone to make such a big decision. There is I'm sure alot more to this story than meets the eye & the fact that her marriage of 22 years ended last year might also have played its small role. Fiona, may you rest in peace, you were one amazing woman & you will never be forgotten!!!
  29. Pipkin Bow
    2010/08/27 07:35:51 PM
    Fiona, your poor family. That is who you should have thought of!

    But who can understand your pain at the time.

    How very very sad and unnecessary.

  30. peter
    2010/08/27 05:37:20 PM
    yes do rest in peace only you know the pain you felt.
    However it is discouraging to see that other peoples death do not receive all the attention it should such as the 28 year old Car Guard from Fish Hoek who was hung upside down on a fence and cut to pieces most likely when still alive. It is said that people heard his screams but no one did anything.
    Is this the future of SA ?
    Then all I can say ...Poor SA and poor us who seem to have become immune to this all.
  31. Ruben du Plessis
    2010/08/27 05:28:23 PM
    Ultimately it was her choice, we will never know the true story, yet it is still a sad loss.
  32. Melany Engelbrecht
    2010/08/27 05:16:35 PM
    You can not blame anyone but her for what she did. She made the choice. Don't try and put the blame on others when no one has the true story! It is so easy to read an article and just presume everything there is as it was. Judge, and u shall be judged!
  33. V.I.
    2010/08/27 04:32:53 PM
    The pain that she must have felt in her heart - the sadness - the empty feelings - Fiona, now you can choose any project with your Maker - R.I.P.
  34. Ronell Hendricks
    2010/08/27 04:20:54 PM
    Condolences to the family.I feel very touched by this article and also very strongly about it.Why do we,as women,give men this kind of power over us?Women will fight tooth and nail for something they truly believe in and,clearly,Fiona was very passionate about this project.Richard,I feel that the least you could have done was stand by her.Shame on you!
  35. Jenny Marshall
    2010/08/27 04:19:55 PM
    how very, very sad, the world has lost an amazing woman, R.I.P Fiona, Wish we could have helped you in some way.
  36. Debbie Shadwell
    2010/08/27 01:50:17 PM
    It's clear to see why she commited suicide. She found love, then was left abandoned. May she rest in peace.

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