Hey, boy, you’re a girl!

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She was a pretty pink-cheeked toddler with wispy blonde hair and an array of cute little dresses. Fast-forward a few years and the dresses have been abandoned.

Gone too are the long blonde locks and everything else remotely girlish about four-year-old Shiloh Nouvelle Jolie-Pitt.

Shi has adopted all things boyish: cropped hair, poorboy caps, trousers, waistcoats, blazers, ties. Shiloh insists on being called Peter (after Peter Pan) or John (one of Peter’s Lost Boys) and won’t respond to her given name.

But is Angelina Jolie indulging her daughter a little too much? Jeans and takkies are one thing but the boys’ baggies during the recent swimming session have raised eyebrows.

Angelina sees nothing wrong with her crossdressing daughter. “She wants to be a boy,” she said in an interview with Vanity Fair. “She dresses like a little dude. I think children should be allowed to express themselves and wear what they want.”

American psychologist Dr David Eigen says if Shiloh’s current dress style is allowed to continue it could lead to her “being picked on by her peers, which could cause social problems, anxiety and poor academic performance.

Dr Lisa Rene Reynolds, who is based in Los Angeles, agrees Shiloh could be in for teasing if her boyishness continues but maintains it’s a non-issue. “How a child dresses is little more than a matter of personal taste.”

Sarah Burningham, a childcare expert and advice columnist, thinks Shiloh should just be left alone. “Kids change their style constantly. Shiloh’s a toddler so this is probably just a stage. It’s important to just let it run its course.”

Read the full article in the YOU of 2 September 2010



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Comments (11)


  1. Zandi
    2010/09/19 01:55:34 PM
    Dis whole 'let her be' thing is because it's a celeb kid, i was a tomboy but shiloh is another case if she even wants a boy name! Let's not forget that her mum angie is bi-sexual and used to date a woman, hmm... I smell a rat!
  2. Ashleigh Kristi
    2010/09/14 08:41:48 AM
    Seriously, as many have said- Shi is just a child. Let her be, when I was growing up I wanted to be a pirate, then a dog then a Pirate again. And here I am mentally (Partly =)) Healthy and quite interesting. Just let her be, though Angelina may have played her hand in some of the little girl's ways.
  3. Bigbratz
    2010/09/02 03:22:02 PM
    As a former "tomboy", I think we grow up to be more sexy and feminine than the average girl.
  4. DEBOY
    2010/08/31 03:07:29 PM
    OH PLEASE PEOPLE SHE IS A KID FOR GOODNESS SAKE!!! NOTHING WRONG WITH WEARING HOW YOU FEEL COMFORTABLE..... AS LONG AS SHE IS HAPPY. ITS NOT LIKE ITS A BOY WEARING DRESSES, LADIES WEAR MENS' CLOTHES EVERYDAY... WHATS NEW ABOUT THIS KID?????
  5. Lyn Wolvaardt
    2010/08/29 11:22:48 AM
    I think a child gets brainwashed by their parents, where would she come on all the boy stuff, unless its imprinted in her head. I'v got a granddaughter the same age as Shiloh, and she likes girly stuff, and insists on wearing only dresses.Shiloh is too young to decide whats right and wrong.
  6. tanja
    2010/08/29 09:54:33 AM
    Shilo is only 4 years old and not 24!! give the kid a break. This could turn out to be a normal tom-boy fase she might grow out of. i used to be a tomboy, no harm done to me. i dont like wearing dresses too, dont wear them at all either. so? Just let her be the 4yr old she is.
  7. Tracy
    2010/08/28 08:19:23 PM
    My sons 4 and loves Hannah Montana,but is in every way that counts a real boy.Just let them be!
  8. Tracy
    2010/08/28 08:14:19 PM
    My sons 4 and loves Hannah Montana,but is in every way that counts a real boy.Just let them be!
  9. Zethu
    2010/08/27 06:18:09 PM
    She's still young maybe when she's all grown she'll change anyway if that how she contineuos dressing it deos'nt matter as long as shes happy give her a break!!
  10. Jax
    2010/08/27 01:26:26 PM
    Cut the kid some slack. She's still young and entitled to her freedom.
  11. Dee Stewart
    2010/08/27 12:47:35 PM
    Leave her be! She may be a tomboy now....but will probably change when she starts puberty/adolescence. And if she doesn't change....then at least she has been 'happy' all her life.

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