Isidingo's Arno: mom's coma vigal

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She started writing in the diary the day after the accident. Inside are pages and pages of messages for her son, Isidingo actor Arno Marais, who’s in a coma after a car accident on 23 July.

“I write down all the messages people are sending. He can read them when he wakes up,” Corrie Viviers says.

Blue-eyed Arno (26), who is the SABC3 soapie’s mischievous Benjamin le Roux, has been in the coma since the horror crash. “He had some swelling on the brain but that has gone down now. There was bad internal bleeding and doctors operated to stop that. He has a crushed left lung and is on a respirator,” explains Corrie, who lives in Bloemfontein.

“It’s horrible seeing him lying there with all those tubes coming from his body. You feel so helpless. It’s the total opposite of what Arno is like - vibrant and on the go.”

Doctors at Steve Biko Academic Hospital in Pretoria, where Arno is in the trauma ICU, are optimistic the actor will recover. “He’s critically ill but stable,” Corrie says. “If anything gets him better it will be acting. It’s his biggest passion.”

It’s not clear what happened that Friday night, says Michelle Victor, Arno’s actress girlfriend of just over a year. She was probably the last person to speak to him on the night of the accident. It was about 11 pm and Arno had left his cottage in Centurion to get takeaways from McDonald’s.

Michelle rushed to the hospital and stayed with Arno until he was wheeled to the operating theatre. “I was picking pieces of glass off him,” she says grimly.

They don’t know how long Arno’s recovery will take or when he’ll wake up but Corrie and Michelle are at his bedside as often as possible. Several of his Isidingo castmates are regular visitors too.

They’re still waiting for Arno to breathe on his own again. Until then two of the women in his life hold his hand and tell him they love him and that people all over the country are praying for him. “I keep telling him that the show is waiting for him to get better so he can come back,” Michelle says.



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Comments (50)


  1. babalwa
    2011/10/14 03:47:06 PM
    ITS GR8 SEEING ARNO ON OUR SCREENS AGN.I HOPE U THANKIN GOD AS OFTEN AS U CAN . I KNOW I AM. LOTSA LOVE ARNO!
  2. Marianne
    2011/10/12 04:51:07 PM
    His life is destroyed? Explain that to the parents of Kobus!
  3. Shazz
    2011/10/06 10:26:43 AM
    Corrie Viviers - So glad you think that it is all just assumptions - there are enough witnesses that will testify.
  4. Ernestina
    2011/07/11 03:32:37 PM
    Oh Gosh! Can somebody hook me up with a date with HOT Arno??? :( I really like him and he is great at what he does..viva BADASSS! :) xoxoxoxoxox
  5. Mom
    2011/07/10 02:39:25 PM
    Almost a year later and it still goes on... Being a public figure has an unbelievable price attached to it. I am thankful that Arno is still with me...even though the accident has destroyed his life. Why is it so easy to have so much to say without knowing the truth?
  6. Angela
    2011/07/01 12:18:44 PM
    Arno,ur a gr8 actor,ur intelgnt,lkable nd vry cute..ur jst simply da bst!
  7. skhumbuzo
    2011/06/26 02:13:25 AM
    Get better Arno... We in this togher and we all praying for you while you still fighting for your life. We can't wait to see you on screen again. With God's grace anything is possible..
  8. sinethemba sibiya
    2011/06/24 10:56:04 AM
    im isidingo big fans i fell honoured when i met benjamin , he rock big time .also nanidipha rocks
  9. Jamie-Lee James
    2011/06/13 07:31:47 PM
    Hi there. I am not the hugest fan of Isidingo, but I sertainly watch it just for ARNO!!! :)....I am a 17 year old girl, and I LOVE HIM SO MUCH!...He is very atractive, and I love the bad-boy, vindictive role he plays! The soap is NOTHING without him!!! :)
  10. Marianne
    2011/05/28 09:11:59 PM
    Kobus would have celebrated his 20th birthday today! Arno i truely hope that you take the second change you got in life to make all right.
  11. mimi
    2011/04/14 01:20:38 PM
    UR A SURVIVER!!!!

    welcome back Ben, im a big fan of isidingo!! ur my fav actor :)
  12. Ignatia
    2011/04/09 10:19:37 PM
    We luv u Arno, u r in our prayers. Im yr BIGGEST fan. 4rm Pretoria North!
  13. Gugulethu Dladla
    2010/12/29 01:25:23 PM
    wishing u a speedy recovery, our prayers and thoughts are with you.
  14. Tugela
    2010/12/05 03:49:57 PM
    Hei Arno! the shows isn't the same without you hey, obviously the fighting spirit within you brought you back honey ;) without doubt you trully are survivor...cant wait for Benjamins return on show i must say, my prayers goes to everyone invloved in this terrible ordeal...God bless!!
  15. Dineo Serobanyane
    2010/12/03 02:28:52 PM
    hey bro , i want to see Cherel go down hey and ur my last hope .. i will be praying for you but i know you will be back in no time ... i miss seeing you on Isidingo

    blessings ........
  16. Andiswa Magugu
    2010/10/30 10:45:47 PM
    Luv u Arno we mic u God bles
  17. Kgomotso modau
    2010/10/04 11:28:37 AM
    Get well soon Arno.2 me u r n icon my best well wishs.Hope u willbb on ur feet n in isidingo soon.miss yha!
  18. Lois Khaled
    2010/09/28 04:14:16 PM
    PRAISE THE LORD - OUR GOD IS GOOD !!!
  19. annalene
    2010/09/20 10:19:23 AM
    Hey just want to know how Arno is doing and how far is he with his recovery.
  20. Laura
    2010/09/16 08:10:43 PM
    Can anyone give me some info on how Arno is doing? news breaks of this terrible accident but then no news if he is getting better???? what is up with this country? do they only report the bad news & not the GOOD?? If he he getting better let the country know!
  21. Lois Khaled
    2010/09/15 11:23:21 AM
    I was unaware, until today, that Arno had been involved in an accident. He will be in my prayers, and we must trust our Lord that such a talent will not be wasted - he will survive and be a testimony to us all. I also pray that Jesus comforts and strengthens both his family and all the families involved over this time.
  22. alex
    2010/09/15 10:22:00 AM
    I pray for your full recovery,may the almighty put his healing hand on you,and give strength to you family and friends. You are in the hands of your creator,he said ask and u shall b given,we are asking for yr recovery. In phillipians 4,6 do not worry about any thing,but pray about everything and God will give u peace
  23. Gaynor Petersen
    2010/09/14 01:36:59 PM
    Please cud you let me know how Arno is doing
  24. Michelle
    2010/09/12 08:53:16 PM
    Hi Arno, I just want to wish you a sppedy recovery, have been praying for you and your family, cant wait to see you back on Isidingo, you are such a wonderful actor. Stay strong!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  25. Adri
    2010/09/07 03:04:10 PM
    Liewe Arno,

    Ek bid vir jou sterkte toe. Mag God jou en jou familie se hande vashou. Glo dat jy sal genees.
    Vir God is niks onmoontlik nie. Waar medici my seun 'n 5% kans gegee het om te oorleef en as hy oorleef, hy verstandelik gestrem sou wees. Ek het dit gekanselleer in die Naam van Jesus. Rich was 8 maande oud, vandag is hy 23jr oud en 'n student. Baie sterkte en liefde, jou toneelspel is fantasties in Isidingo.
  26. AJ
    2010/09/06 11:08:33 PM
    Can anyone give me an update on Arno's condition please. And also on the other kids that were involved in the accident? My deepest condolences to Kobus Venter's family " may his soul through the mercy of GOD rest in peace"
  27. Kim Mc Donald - Hartbeespoort
    2010/09/06 10:37:45 AM
    I am a big fan of Isidingo.

    To his mom and Family, we pray that God will continue to strengthen and comfort you all during this tough time.

    Arno is a survivor, he will make it through, wishing you a speedy recovery. See you soon on Isidingo.

    God Bless you and and your family.
  28. Nina
    2010/09/03 10:04:44 AM
    Dear Corrie,
    My heart goes out to you and your loved ones. Today it is six weeks for you and probably the worst of your life. Wednesday was six weeks for me for my son who also was ina car accident. He is also in a comaand my Dr. says there is no hope. I understand what you must be going through because there is no worse helplessness than the helplessness of not being able to help your child. I send these thoughts - where there is life there is hope - always believe and always pray- God will be there for our children and for us.
    I wish you well and be strong
    Love
    Nina
  29. Larry
    2010/08/30 09:37:18 AM
    I understand that there was a person who died in that accident but that doesn't give us the right to hummer and persecute those who survived, I sympathise with the family of the teenager who didn't make it out of the accident, it's sad in deed.....it was an accident, finish and klaar...Could people just stop for a minute and think of How He (Arno) will feel when he starts to comprehend the whole thing and the fact that someone died?...So, lets stop it with the blame-shifting, it ain't helping anyone, especially not Him....

    @Arno....I'm one of the biggest isidingo fans, and honestly, your character is one of those i love to hate, I hate what Benjamin is doing but it is the way you play him (Benjamin) that make me look forward to wathcing Isidingo the following day, you bring the character to life my friend and you are the best.....

    I wish you a speedy & full recovery and I'm looking forward to seeing you grace my TV screen soon, you are a fighter buddy, Keep fighting OK...
  30. Amazed
    2010/08/29 10:59:44 AM
    Dear Sceptic
    Arno is VERY sick and very weak. His mother wasn't even allowed to be with him outside of visiting hours when he was dying in ICU...Gigi and the claims she makes speak for themselves. The hospital rules in Steve Biko are applied strictly, firmly and professionally at all times. If you want to get to a patient outside of visiting hours, you will have to resort to other measures. It is shocking that this young man and his family are not granted the privilege of their privacy regarding his recovery.
  31. jackie murphy
    2010/08/28 05:16:59 PM
    I hope Arno is doing better my thoughts are with him and his family....
  32. Sceptic
    2010/08/27 04:29:44 PM
    Gigi,
    I thought he is in a coma.........howcome did you find him interesting? Did he speak to you?
  33. Gigi
    2010/08/26 06:15:30 PM
    Hey there - i had the opportunity to meet Arno while volunteering at the hospital on 24/08/2010. I was asked to help clean the wards and the nurses on duty asked me to sit with him a while so that they could finished their rounds. I had no idea who he was as I do not watch Isidingo. What an interesting young man -and so full of trust in our Heavenly Father!!!
    Arno you will recover fully - just keep believing!! The Lords is with you always. And as promised we keep you in our prayers. God Bless you and your Family!
  34. Lee Clarke
    2010/08/24 12:42:35 PM
    I am so concerned about Arno. Can anyone give us an update on his condition? He and his family remain in my thoughts and prayers.
  35. Maggie James
    2010/08/23 09:04:58 PM
    Isaiah 53:5 says ".,by His stripes,you are healed"... Father,you have promised this in your word. I pray for healing and peace to be with this family, in the mighty name of our saviour.. Jesus Christ. Amen
  36. Corrie Viviers
    2010/08/23 05:49:29 PM
    I am Arno's mother and would like to thank everyone for there kind messages. I would also like to reply to 3 comments individually: Rhinah (17/8), I agree with you. Unfortunately you do not know the background of the article.Our full support is with the other families, as was pointed out clearly in the article.It was never intended to be an article that ignores the other people involved. Bee (11/8), please read the article again? It does not portray "our side of the story" at all. Madelyn Marais (11/8), it is dangerous to make assumptions like this.Four young people were involved in an accident. There were two drivers. On which grounds are you directly saying that Arno took your friend? I know and understand that you hurt. Just remember that I hurt, too.
  37. samantha love
    2010/08/19 09:54:36 AM
    hey arno , its so wierd we chatted just the other day and you made me laugh so loud , im your biggest fan and my eight year old daughter thinks your so cute. cant wait for you to recover because i know you will. you have a fire inside you and its a strong fire. youre in my prayers and thoughts all the time. corrie you must be strong and have faith. god knows what he is doing. love all of you guys
    samantha love and family
  38. Wendy
    2010/08/19 08:10:45 AM
    Does anybody know how Arno is doing?
  39. joyce reddy
    2010/08/17 02:28:13 PM
    my prayers r with u & the family that also
    lost a loved - miss u on isidingo
  40. alicia
    2010/08/17 12:07:00 PM
    you will be ok, healing is a long process but you will get there Arno
  41. Rhinah
    2010/08/17 10:16:02 AM
    I wish him a quick recovery,somehow we must also wish condolences to the family of the teenager who died in the crash.It is not fair to acknowledge one family only.they lost their loved one,lets show them support as much as we r showing the Marais family.
  42. Tinkie Ratcliffe
    2010/08/15 11:11:28 AM
    I am a great fan of Isidingo, It is so sad.
    Our prayers are with you and your family and the others that were involved in this tragic accident.
  43. Perfume
    2010/08/13 06:59:33 PM
    Arno we are praying that God will heal you completely....we are missing you presence in Isidingo...there is a verse in Psalm 23 that says "YEA THOUGH I WALK THROUGH THE VALLEY OF THE SHADOW OF DEATH..........." Arno you are only walking through this, we believe that God is able to heal you completely.

    To his Mom and family, we pray that God will continue to strengthen and comfort you all during this tough time.
  44. akhona
    2010/08/12 08:47:39 AM
    i feel so sad right now i wish arno could recover may god be with him till his revory i will pray for him day by day may god be with him and his family
  45. Bee
    2010/08/11 04:31:13 PM
    I'm sorry to hear about Arno Marais, but you must also keep in mind about the other families involved.
    The teenager who died was also a SON, a BROTHER and a FRIEND. His life was cut short,he had such a bright future ahead of him. I believe it would have just been fair to hear from the other familes, to hear their side of the story...
  46. Madelyn Marais
    2010/08/11 03:05:10 PM
    Arno took one of my friends! Kobus Venter ... Its so unfair!!!
  47. Thaakira
    2010/08/10 02:57:54 PM
    He is a survivor and he will make it through, just keep praying....
  48. Laurie Putter
    2010/08/07 06:13:08 PM
    Hi Arno, you are permanently in my prayers. You still got your dream to live, that's why I believe will touch and heal you according his time and plan. Can't wait for you to be up and on the go again! All the best to you and all your family. Missing and loving you. Will see you in 2012, will be visiting SA then. Will enjoy a cold amstel with you!!! Blessings my friend.
  49. Nhlanhla
    2010/08/06 01:04:45 PM
    How sad but I believe he will recover.All we have is faith in the God Almighty.

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