Sportsbuzz: gay rugby players

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Former Welsh rugby captain Gareth Thomas is the first international rugby player to publicly reveal he’s gay. In a sports world often hostile to gay men is his courage likely to be respected or has he doomed his career?

“His opponents will probably use it against him on the field and make comments to provoke him,” says Gert van der Westhuizen, sports editor of Beeld newspaper. “And you can be sure spectators will also make remarks from the stands. But people should respect him because at least he’s no longer holding up a front as we’ve seen so many other sportsmen do. And he remains a great rugby player.

“There are many more gay rugby players but I doubt Gareth’s revelation will encourage them to come out of the closet. There’s such a macho culture in rugby and people are intolerant.”

And no South African players are likely to follow his example, Van der Westhuizen says. “I think they’d be too afraid. And I don’t know if spectators are adult enough to accept it. I think players would be too afraid to say they are gay and then run onto the field the next Saturday in a stadium filled with 60 000 fans sporting horns on their heads.”

Griquas scrumhalf Sarel Pretorius reckons it was a good move on Thomas’ part. “If he’d kept his secret and someone saw him with another man it would have caused a scandal. People would have been more shocked than they are now.

“But he has put more pressure on himself. It’s war on the field and his opponents will use his sexuality against him. His teammates will also perceive him differently. Rugby players always bait one another and you have to be tough to take it. Sometimes it gets very personal. Gareth will have to be able to laugh.”

Pretorius also feels it’s unlikely any SA players will make a similar revelation. “I doubt there’s a gay SA player. If one were to come out of the closet the guys would reject him and try to work him out of the team. The guys are rough; they wouldn’t make him feel welcome.”



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Comments (18)


  1. Taahira
    2011/10/28 01:00:55 PM
    If you are gay or straight, be gay or straight. That's your perogative. Why the ugly comments? The man is gay. He is not the only one who is gay. There are millions of men and females hiding because of fear of revealing their sexual preference because of people like you. Leave them be. No skin off my back. Should be no skin of yours either Carika.
    It surprises me when people react the way they do when they hear things like this. Who are you to judge when the very religious book you take to reading every night, teaches you not to judge. If they die and go to heaven, how is your ugy comment or feelings going to block them from entering the pearly gates? Be open. Live your life for yourself. Not for others.
  2. Nadia
    2011/09/28 09:09:47 AM
    Carika, you disgust me!! You know sweet FA about moral standards Aunty!! You go ahead and stay at home and look after those kids of yours ... God help them if one of them happens to be gay, with a mother like you!!!!!!!!
  3. Proud to be straight
    2011/09/09 11:43:42 PM
    What is disgusting and wrong, are the gay people who are made to feel ashamed of who they are, and for the sake of pleasing the world spend years being married in a hetrosexual marriage and living only half a life.

    A minister once mentioned to me that homosexuality is wrong. I told him that God made Gay people on purpose, how else would men get their hair cut.

    Of course my comment was intended to shock him in a joking way.

    There are gay, hairdressers, plumbers, astronaughts, rugby players, actors, ministers, kings of countries. I dare any one to post an occupation where a post has not been occupied by a gay person.

    If one reads the Old Testament King David had a VERY VERY close friendship with Jonathan -
    just google the passage "King David gay?"

    By all accounts these two blokes were ripping each others clothing off and scrumming down.

    Inspite of this special friendship David was God's favourite, and became King.

    So the next time you look at your roofing contractor, policeman remember that there is a chance that this person is not straight.

    Life without our LGBT population would be very boring.
  4. calvin
    2011/08/28 12:16:01 PM
    "Concerned
    2011/05/09 11:37:49 PM Thts wai GOD created Adam for Eve,so pliz spare us with ths gay thng of urz its ungodly.(disgusted) "

    u have no soul my friend and thanks 2 u and people like u people like me must hide how
    they feel i really really really hope god will bless u with 3 gay children 2 teach u to love and are about
    all sexual orentations !!!!!!!!!!!!
  5. Concerned
    2011/05/09 11:37:49 PM
    Thts wai GOD created Adam for Eve,so pliz spare us with ths gay thng of urz its ungodly.(disgusted)
  6. hesCliptglise
    2011/02/20 02:15:12 AM
    hi, new to the site, thanks.
  7. LIBERAL Freak
    2010/10/20 05:04:05 PM
    ...It is not unnatural to drive a car-is that wrong?Why people have a problem with how other people have sex,I do not know.Don't you have your own life to live-instead of regulationg and supressing another person's?From my experience,people who utter their objections ar themselves not comfortable with their sexualities,hence they attack those who are comfortable. We live in a free country,people should be free to express themselves in any manner they feel comfortable!His homosexuality is no-one's business but his and his partner's.It is after all a part of him he cannot alienate,try walking a mile in his shoes before you can utter you ignorance...
  8. Proud of it
    2010/06/18 07:45:48 PM
    Carike, as much as i believe evryone has there own opinions on sexuality the fact is YOUR NOT in the twenty first century- woman are higher than men in business these days and woman are becoming better than men, also to add to that- you have obviously never been to a gay club, well theres lots of str8 woman there... Why? because they feel safe knowing that they will be protected from men only wanting 1 thing from them and its the truth, I believe in God but do a bit of history do u really think God didnt make some people gay? stop living in the old times, if people of over 80yo can accept it who really are true followers of God then you need to catch a wake up, i mean no offence to you or anybody else but if gay people can accept str8 people u can as well accept gay people, we are not diseased or different we just like the same sex thats the only difference and if you were a true christian, it says in the bible to NOT JUDGE, so dont judge!!!
  9. CKNJ
    2010/06/14 06:00:24 PM
    How sad that there are still small minded people living in ancient times that feel they have the right to trample other people's rights. The SA players that would ostracize a gay player are pathetic. I know of players that are big enough to be able to flatten those buffons, but just happen to be gay. What sickens ME is that morons think just because a person is gay they want to sleep with whatever man crosses his path! To people like Carike... do you want to sleep with every man you see just because you are a woman? Why do you think gay men only have sex on the brains? YOU are the people that sexualize gay people, not them. Your inability to wrap your small minds around a life-reality is the issue, not the 'morality' of being gay or not. Do us all a favor and keep your bigotedness to yourself.
  10. Carike
    2010/06/11 01:43:14 AM
    GayBoy, enough! Be gay, whatever! I really couldn't care less and I will support the soccer team so.. there. Oh, and go get married then if you like :)
  11. Kristi Ashleigh Joubert
    2010/06/05 09:11:19 PM
    It's about time! Kudos to you! Honestly, if there's a female rugby team then honestly people, why cant there not be any GAY (!!) rugby players? I say, let your flag fly high, cupcakes.
  12. GAYBOY
    2010/06/04 02:25:28 PM
    Dear Carike. We live in the Twentieth Century. Gay marriage is legal. Perhaps Your disturbed mental state is of such nature that all the men you swooned over as a teenager turned out GAY. Well shame, I feel for you. If we took the bible(the word of God) word for word we could: kill whomever works on the sabbath exodus 35:2, or pehaps stone the farmers who plant two different crops in the same field Lev19:19, Or perhaps burn people to death who sleep with their in -laws Lev 20:14.Guess what, THERE ARE GAY RUGBY PLAYERS IN SOUTH AFRICA, so perhaps tune to the soccer world cup. You call me sickening? Stuff you and your preconceived ideas about society. You have absolutely no clue what you are talking about.
  13. Carike
    2010/04/26 02:03:24 PM
    DrKeith my Duifie, we're all entitled to our opinion. And I'm certainly not a bra burner.. I actually believe women should stay at home and raise the kids so there's more positions for men. So insult me all you want "Dr".. it's like water off a ducks back. But seriously now.. go and be gay.. no skin off my nose.. just don't rub it in my face and I won't rub being straight in yours.
  14. DrKeith
    2010/04/19 06:39:36 PM
    there are some horrendous ignoramuses posting on this website. carike my bokkie, as jy wil terugbeland in die land van preggers en kaalvoet in die kombuis, moenie dat die moffies jou keer nie. jou redenasies is lagwekkend en jy besef nie eers hoe ver jy jouself in die verleentheid stel nie. gaan pop nou 'n baby, moan by jou ander koeksisters oor die wasgoed en die vuil doeke, en gaan vrek in jou salige onkunde.
  15. Chloé
    2010/04/13 12:02:47 PM
    Whether being gay is wrong or not, we have every right to be happy! If we can put the race issue to bed then surely you closed minded people can learn to leave well enough alone when it comes to a person's sexual orientation. I am a Christian and I know my God loves and accepts me. That's all the acceptance i need.
  16. Carike
    2010/03/09 01:44:26 PM
    If I knew there was a gay/bi player on my team I wouldn't watch the game anymore. We ask what's wrong with society? I have the answer. It's "cool" to be gay, we have no moral standards anymore, we allow gay people to get married and have children. It's SICKENING!!! I don't care if I step on millions of toes, being gay is wrong, it's sick and it's not natural. God intended for MAN AND WOMAN to be together, not MAN AND MAN. Seriously, I don't think it's cool to be gay I think it's DISGUSTING!!!
  17. Harold
    2010/03/05 11:15:33 AM
    I would not scrum down with one of them!!!!
  18. Rugby Supporter
    2010/02/04 01:08:26 PM
    There have been a good few gay and bi-sexual rugby players over the years. On provincial and national level! These guys are well known in the gay community and have been well protected until now. Let's hope it stays like that. I don't care about anybody's sexual preference, but it is damn difficult to enjoy watching our good looking boys on the field if you know that they'd probably be more interested in your boyfriend than in you!! So for the sake of all female rugby supporters - Please stay in the closet for as long as you can!

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