My child, mutilated

Charlotte
Charlotte

She was rushing around as only a mother can when her daughter is coming to visit. The April school holidays were around the corner and there was still so much to do. She’d stocked up on groceries, had prepared her daughter’s bedroom and was counting the days.

Then on a Wednesday two weeks before the holidays Charlotte Eksteen picked up the phone and called her daughter on a whim. She would not usually do this at nine on a school morning but she called on the off chance. She still doesn’t know precisely why.

Coincidentally Anika Smit (18) was at home with an ear infection and they could have a good chat. Anika had a last request for Charlotte: “Mom, don’t forget to get an extra-large bottle of beetroot salad for me.”

But the visit never materialised. Instead Charlotte, who lives in Mossel Bay, would travel to Pretoria to bury her daughter.

And while Anika’s parents mourned the loss of their darling daughter South Africans recoiled in horror at the brutal way the schoolgirl had been mutilated and killed.

It’s suspected that after chatting so cheerfully to her mom that morning Anika was raped at her home in Theresa Park, Pretoria.

Her body was found with multiple stab wounds – her hands had been hacked off between the wrist and elbow and removed from the scene.

Charlotte has only one message for the killer. “What goes around comes around,” she says when we call at the house Anika shared with her dad, Johan Smit.

“Yes, I’m filled with hate, a bitter rage. But the grief and pain are so much worse.”

When Johan returned home from work that fateful afternoon he was greeted by chaos in the dining room. Chairs had been knocked over and the table moved.

He called Anika, who was in Grade 11 at Hoërskool Gerrit Maritz, but there was no answer. In her bedroom he froze in his tracks at the horror that greeted him.

“The image that stays in my mind is of her naked body in a pool of blood. Her two arms without hands.”

Charlotte shakes her head. Why, she wants to know, did the killer have to hack off Anika’s hands?

Anika’s bedroom door is shut now, as if to keep the horrific memories inside. Beside her door there’s a wall-hanging with a prayer on it: “God, where there is darkness let there be light. Where there is sorrow, joy.”

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Comments (22)


  1. PEARL
    2010/05/13 03:56:44 PM
    i sadden. how do these people live with themselves. we live in fear day in and day out. The nation is separated because of crime. Death penalty must come back. enough is enough. No pain is lesser or better than the other, black or white.
  2. Colleen Hartenstein
    2010/04/24 07:03:43 AM
    Without reading too much of the news that followed this terrible crime, we are all wondering who
    would have done such a horrendious thing to a young girl. Where is this person now???
    Please tell me this person is behind bars.
  3. Abby
    2010/04/20 09:59:57 AM
    I received a email about this brutal murder and cried on the spot. I am a parent and just trying to think what her dad and mum are going through is heart braking. bring back the death penalty they desrve to die!!ur country is going to the dogs, Mr president imagine this happens to your kids! the law in this country is to soft for these type of crime., give them a pat on the back and send them on their way, carry on we say , kill , rape steal, its okay you can, YOU CAN GET AWAY WITH MURDER!!!!!!. this is SOUTH AFRICA thats the only punishment our law gives these crimanals. MAY THE LORD JESUS BE WITH YOU CHARLOTTE & JOHAN
  4. Tammy
    2010/04/12 01:24:22 PM
    Why do people have to be so cruel... What do people do to deserve their life been torn. I really hope that justice is served and that man suffers for the rest of his life!!! My deepest sympathy goes out to Charlotte and Johan, may the lord be with you and help you through this tough time. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
  5. KAYA
    2010/04/09 04:31:13 PM
    GOD HELP YOU PARENTS MAY HER SOUL R.I.P
  6. mohseena
    2010/04/07 02:16:37 PM
    may God grant you lots of strenth so you may be strong , so when these people get caught you are able to stand there for your child , be strong
    God witnesses all and will surly see that justice is done , good luck
  7. natty
    2010/04/05 07:46:14 PM
    this is a sad story my heart goes out to this family.hope these killers get caught
  8. Cheron
    2010/04/02 11:57:12 AM
    Left SA for the past 8 years now and living a life free of burglar guards and alarms and God knows what South Africans have to put up with! .
    I'm so sorry for this family...may God get you all through this terrible time.
  9. Kelly wessels
    2010/04/01 01:45:48 PM
    OH MY GOSH, My heart goes out to this family! May God let justice be served to the killer and may he rot in hell!!!!!
  10. Chantel
    2010/04/01 09:21:57 AM
    Deepest sympathy to Anika's parents. I think now is the time that South Africa stand and stop tolerating the crime. This has gone too far. I think it's time that world sees what is going on on this so called 'beautiful country'. I love my cultural heartland but enough is enough. Why should anyone die at the hands of any other person? I think it's time the lid gets blown off the pot and have the world see whats been cooking.

  11. 2010/03/31 02:55:13 PM
    my heart bleed for this mfamily.what goes around comes around.he can run,but not forever.he will get his day ten times worst.be strong.we serve a living god.
  12. Renee
    2010/03/31 06:22:59 AM

    Problem is sometimes these people never get caught, and if they do they are sometimes set free or given a minimal sentence.
    How sad and pathetic is the S.A Government.
    Do the crime, do the time. Life Sentence until death.
    My heart goes out to her parents.
    May you live to see him put away for ever.
    Until then, I hope you both get the courage to stay strong.
  13. MARIA
    2010/03/29 11:15:43 PM
    MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO ANIKAS PARENTS! MY HEART BLEEDS FOR THEM! THIS WOULD HAVE PROBABLY NEVER HAVE HAPPENED IF WE STILL HAD THE DEATH SENTENCE! WHY DID THEY HAVE TO HARM SUCH A BEAUTIFUL GIRL AND SHE HAD LOTS TO LIVE FOR!! THE WHOLE OF SOUTH AFRICA SHOULD STAND TOGETHER TO GET THE DEATH SENTENCE! WHY MUST WE RUN AWAY FROM OUR BEAUTIFUL COUNTRY BECAUSE OF CRIMINALS? WE ALL VOTE BUT HAVE NO SAY AND THE PARTIES SAY VOTE FOR ME BUT THEY DONT PROTECT THE CHILDREN,YOUTH NOR THE ELDERLY AND ANY OTHER HUMAN! COME ON LETS ALL MARCH TO PARLIAMENT SO WE CAN BE HEARD!! COME ON ALL LETS STAND TOGETHER!! MARIA SCHUTTE
  14. MARIA
    2010/03/29 11:12:10 PM
    MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO ANIKAS PARENTS! MY HEART BLEEDS FOR THEM! THIS WOULD HAVE PROBABLY NEVER HAVE HAPPENED IF WE STILL HAD THE DEATH SENTENCE! WHY DID THEY HAVE TO HARM SUCH A BEAUTIFUL GIRL AND SHE HAD LOTS TO LIVE FOR!! THE WHOLE OF SOUTH AFRICA SHOULD STAND TOGETHER TO GET THE DEATH SENTENCE! WE ALL VOTE BUT HAVE NO SAY AND THE PARTIES SAY VOTE FOR ME BUT THEY DONT PROTECT THE CHILDREN,YOUTH NOR THE ELDERLY AND ANY OTHER HUMAN! COME ON LETS ALL MARCH TO PARLIAMENT SO WE CAN BE HEARD!! MARIA SCHUTTE
  15. anita
    2010/03/29 12:56:24 PM
    What can i say the justice system in S.A is for the criminal . My niece was murdered by people she boarded , they said it was a accident , apparently they through the gun awya. Geuss what they got community service. I say if you kill u should be killed .xxx
  16. Brett
    2010/03/29 12:02:13 PM
    The sick twisted twit probably removed the arms because of skin under her fingernails,the guy would have had scratches and might still have scars.I hope he is caught in a barbed wire fence and left there,close our borders now before this I a more common crime
  17. osego tapiwa
    2010/03/29 11:31:53 AM
    this is sad...i know botswana might b a bit slow but the death sentence kip people hu
    do things like this in check.....those murderes nid to b brouht in check...my hert goes
    out to the family.............
  18. Leonard
    2010/03/29 11:25:35 AM
    What a great lost to a young girl of her age. All my prayers goes to the Mother & Father of Anika.I hope the police will make a arrest soon , and leave him into the hands of the community , to chopped him in pieces so that he also can suffer . God blessed you in times of bereavement.
  19. marie
    2010/03/28 06:44:17 AM
    i moved away from south africa in 1997,i dont regret that for one single moment.where i live now when people ask me where im from im ashamed to say south africa, its known to be the number one highest crime rated country in the world, even surpassing afghanistan and iraq.im so sorry for charlotte, but shes right, what comes around goes around, would just be so nice to see the karma the killer would get.my deepest sympathy charlotte, keep praying dear, i will keep you in my prayers too...
  20. Kashiefa
    2010/03/27 10:04:35 PM
    i cant believe this poor girl had to endure so much pain before she died. Her whole life was still ahead of her. I hope to God that the justice system in this country will do Anika's brutal murder justice. I cant even imagine what her parents are going through. My deepest symphaties lies with her family.
  21. Alice Marshall
    2010/03/26 09:15:56 PM
    I just wonder how sick the person is that did this to an 18 year old child? My heart aches when I see how violent South-Africa has become and how the government still thinks it is acceptable to murder and rape. The guilty never gets caught and iiiiif they do, they will be let out when it's someones birthday, just to go back and commit the same crimes. I live in Botswana and it is due to the death penalty that this country is reasonably crime and murder free. The law works. For government as well as for civilians. I feel safe to go to bed at night. I don't sleep well though, because I left my family behind in a crime ruled country. It is sad that we see it yet there is not much we can do about it. My deepest sympathy to Charlotte and Johan Smit. I can't say I know how you feel, because I don't have children, but I just pray you find comfort in each other and I pray to God this man who did this to your child should meet the same fate. He is of no use to society and should suffer himself so that he can feel what your daughter felt. I'm sorry for your loss.
  22. Sherri
    2010/03/26 02:06:39 PM
    People like Anika's killer will die a slow & painful death & will eventually rot in hell.
    Deepest sympathy goes out to Charlotte and Johan Smit.
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