Woman's journey in search of ubuntu

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Call Sonja Kruse’s cellphone number and you’ll hear: ‘‘Hi, this is Sonja, the Ubuntu Girl. Unfortunately I can’t take the call. I’m probably doing something interesting with someone interesting somewhere interesting in our beautiful country.’’

The 32-year-old redhead is wandering around South Africa on a mission to find the real meaning of ubuntu, the African concept of showing humanity.

YOU found her at the side of a road in the Koue Bokkeveld, hoping to cadge a lift to Wuppertal. So far her search has been fruitful. Since setting out from East London people have opened their hearts and homes to her along the Wild Coast, through the Western Cape and to the border of the Northern Cape.

‘‘I haven’t been turned away at a single place where I knocked on a door,’’ Sonja says. She has slept in shacks, student digs, fishermen’s cottages, RDP houses and millionaire’s homes, and used slop buckets, pit toilets and sometimes a plastic basin to rinse off the dust of the road.

Sonja keeps a daily journal and blogs every week. The entries will probably become a book. ‘‘I’ll keep walking until I stop running into ubuntu,’’ she says.

A dream four years ago sowed the seed for her adventure. ‘‘It was more a vision: I saw a backpack, camera and R100. At the end of the dream there was a book on the shelf that grew wings and flew across the world.’’

She has no fixed route and is led by people’s suggestions. ‘‘Am I afraid? Of what? After four months on the road I still don’t know what I’m supposed to be scared of. We’re overwhelmed by fear in South Africa. But there’s a life out here, away from all the bad news.’’

* Read Sonja’s weekly blog, Ubuntu in Abundance, at www.letterdash.com/skruse.



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Comments (5)


  1. Manuel Saporiti
    2011/03/28 08:20:23 PM
    this is what every person of this planet must do LEAVE REAL LIFE
    thanks Ubuntu girl
  2. Angelique
    2011/03/11 08:55:45 AM
    Hi Sonja
    What you are doing is totally awesome - you're living life!
    If you're ever in the Empangeni or Richards Bay area, please let me know! The place where I work is truly a great example of Ubuntu. The love can be felt as you walk through the front doors, and we use the community to reach out to the community. It really is a place not to be missed. If you'de like more info, drop me an email. :-) Happy travels!
  3. Lesley
    2010/09/29 05:50:02 PM
    This is great, I hope many many many South Africans (both here and overseas) read it!
  4. Sonja Kruse
    2010/03/16 12:26:19 PM
    Hi Angi. Thank you so much for your positivity! Yes, this country of ours is beautiful with beautiful people. I'm loving and embracing this experience. Not sure where you are but feel free to mail your details to me at: skruse@24.com and will come and find you if in your area. Take care, Sonja
  5. Angi
    2010/03/14 11:04:23 PM
    My word, this is amazing! I would love to join her and experience the raw beautiful power that is SA! Well done to you!

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