I think it is more difficult to work this out because you are both celebrities. If you were not so much in the public where the media follows you all the time and record any wrong move by either of you, it will be published again. Life is tough but take your children and make the best of it. Joost will always be their father and perhaps from a small age they will learn about people making mistakes (in this case their father) and the consequences you carry. Wishing you all the best.

Mense is so vinnig om te oordeel! maar tog is dit jou keuse en jou besluit,ek is al van dat ek n klein meisie is mal oor jou jy is tot dus ver my rol model en ek staan agter jou wees net sterk en glo jy gaan bo uit kom!!!

Hi, I know what you going through, as a family member, in our home, plus the extended family which helped encourage the hole affair, thought and it happened, like planned, they could get a piece of my husband, it was all done in front of me, I was ignored and distracted from the goings on around me, it came to light a year later and I am just as hurt, confused, and nobody to talk to, my problem is who does one trust!! I am not sure how to handle the situation now, and to move forward, I do believe you can, even if its on your way of level to level, as one feels more confidant and slowly move back into the marriage as you feel more comfortable. Staying with your husband is your choice, no one else, listen to your heart and children and then sit with your husband, for all the truth no matter how hurtful but that will then give you closure on your side of the ordeal. The both of you, I am positive, it will turn out just fine...happy marriage with kiddies, Mommy and a Daddy please don't for get Gran's and Oupa's. Ignore negative remarks, from someone who has never been in this predicament, they really have no idea!! There is no blaming game either, each one is responsible for their own action!!!

You two can fix things up and be very happy. It all depends on both of you. Well, do you want to be happy with Joost? Your future happiness depends on how loving or strongheaded you decide to be.

YOU are totally responsible for this sad break up, with due to your greed for sensationalism.

Age gets us all, eventually. But Amor, you look rather amazing. Congrats on giving that scum of a hubby the boot